| by Mary Ellen Turner | |
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Recently I reviewed my old cases with a fresh perspective. Although the prescribed remedies had some benefit, the hoped-for overall change had not occurred. In two cases I now saw the Compositae family with different eyes. |
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| We often see the Compositae theme in emigrated or estranged families: the theme is a longing for connection (as ally), where they can retain their individuality as equals. Although they must protect themselves (due to their highly sensitive nature), they are receptive to the plight of the less fortunate. | |
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Bellis perennis case
K.V. was employed as a housekeeper for a wealthy family and soon became the “girl for everything” for all family members; always on call. It was a totally chaotic household with no structure or accountability. She often felt unappreciated, about which she complained bitterly (“After all I do for them ...”). The same pattern typically showed in her romantic relationships. |
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| Two doses of Bellis perennis 1M within two days helped her: “I feel so calm.” Her skin cleared, and she stopped smoking. “Finally I have broken free!”, she said, meaning she no longer felt responsible for other people's chaos. K.V. began to set boundaries, both with her employer and in her romantic relationship. “At last it became clear to me that my needs come first.” Her skin and lip herpes healed, her dizziness and hot flushes ceased. | |
| She no longer has shoulder pain, and her sleep further improved (she had previously rated her night-waking at 10 on a scale of 1–10; this has now changed: she rates herself at 4, with only occasional night wakings). She has decided to give up her job with the family and take a job in the hospitality industry. | |
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Chamomilla case
She describes herself as self-sufficient and tough, and says she never asks for help. “My father was a subtle terrorist and told me I was a troublemaker because I always questioned his authority. If I don’t show feelings, father will leave me alone.” |
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After having had Magnesium carbonicum with moderate success, I switched to Chamomilla 1M (capricious, indecisive, the acute Magnesium carbonicum). Four days later she rang: “I’m beginning to dream again. I’m in a group where we have a joint project. Everything is harmonious and happy.” Her hip pains eased, her ears are still blocked. Three weeks later she had several nosebleeds. She reverted to her usual “anxiety” and wanted to quit her job. The hip pain returned. She took the 10M in the clinic, and I sent her home with a C200 bottle of drops to take as needed. |
| Two weeks later: she had planned a trip to Taos, NM, to visit a friend, but as she was about to leave she discovered she needed a new starter for her car (Oh! That symbol!). She began again with her habitual discouragement strategy, but decided “to keep an eye on the cost”, got the starter and set off on her trip. “The best thing I have done for myself in a long time!” The decision to go on the trip was a breakthrough, and subsequently numerous offers of help and a deep, intimate friendship developed in a synchronistic way. “I have realised how I can follow my own path. I can let go now. I am content. I find I am less defensive and can keep negative inner chatter away from me. I have started playing the piano again, and now I sing and whistle at work. I am much less isolated.” Two dreams: “I am in a group with a common goal. Fighter jets fly over us. We decide to do nothing. The planes fly past. I am in a partnership with someone and we make plans.” “The pains in my hip have decreased so much that I can taper off the ibuprofen for the pain. I no longer have earaches, just an occasional crackling – something seems to be opening. Finally my needs are being met!” She still describes herself as a radical feminist, but no longer calls herself separatist. Mary Ellen Turner lives and practises in Denver, Colorado Photo: Bellis perennis, David Monniaux [1] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCsGfoF8CjQ Category: Cases Keywords: Compositae, abuse, giving too much, robust, estrangement, joint pain Remedies: Bellis perennis, Chamomilla |
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