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Einblicke in die Gedankenwelt von aggressiven und kontrollsüchtigen Männern

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ER SAGT, ER LIEBT DICH. ALSO WARUM TUT ER DAS?

Jede vierte Frau in Deutschland wird mindestens einmal Opfer von körperlicher und/oder sexualisierter Gewalt durch ihren (Ex-)Partner. Betroffen sind Frauen aller sozialen Schichten.

Lundy Bancroft arbeitet seit vielen Jahren mit aggressiven Männern und zeigt Frauen, wie sie sich physisch und psychisch schützen können und welche Signale schon früh in einer Beziehung darauf hindeuten, dass verbale und emotionale Aggressionen in Gewalt umschlagen können.

Gewalt gegen Frauen hat wenig damit zu tun, wie ein Mann fühlt, sondern wie sein Denken sein Verhalten beeinflusst. Der Autor beschreibt, was in den Köpfen von Gewalttätern vor sich geht und veranschaulicht:

  • die Frühwarnzeichen
  • zehn misshandelnde Persönlichkeitstypen
  • welche Rolle Drogen und Alkohol spielen
  • was Sie als Betroffene ändern können und was nicht
  • wie Sie sich sicher aus der Gewaltbeziehung befreien

Dieses Buch enthält wertvolle Informationen für Betroffene sowie hilfreiche Tipps für Außenstehende wie Freunde und Angehörige, um Misshandlung, Missbrauch und häusliche Gewalt zu stoppen.

„Die meisten Bücher über Misshandlung in Beziehungen konzentrieren sich auf Frauen – wie sie verletzt werden, warum sie bleiben. So wichtig diese Fragen auch sind, sie können uns vom Kern des Problems ablenken. Bancroft stellt mutig die wichtigsten Fragen von allen – und beantwortet sie brillant: Warum misshandeln so viele Männer Frauen? Was kann man dagegen tun?“
— Jackson Katz


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Sabine Fritzen out of Germany
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An extremely helpful and comprehensive analysis based on 30 years of experience with perpetrators and victims of violence - both the descriptions of the roots and aspects of subtle patterns of psychological violence through to escalation into physical violence, as well as abusive structures, Bancroft lays everything bare. And thus helps the women affected to recognise as early as possible who they are dealing with and what options are available to them. The most important realisation is that it is not usually about trauma on the part of the perpetrator, but about a sense of entitlement and deeply rooted chauvinism and disrespect. Essential reading not only for professionals who work with victims and perpetrators of violence, but also for parents - and above all for every woman!
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Mama-Mia out of Germany
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Really good for patients and therapists
Undoubtedly one of the best books on abuse and controlling men and a first-class (over)life guide for women in particular who have to deal with pathologically controlling men, whether privately or professionally. It also helps to dispel the illusion that "women" can change such men. Wolves in sheep's clothing simply cannot be changed. Hardly anyone describes this "species" and its "inner life" better than Lundy Bancroft.
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Very good analysis of this behavioural pattern - however, I would have liked a description of the pre-/postnatal imprinting processes as the "crowning glory".
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