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Wie man sich vor Narzissten, Soziopathen und anderen extremen Persönlichkeiten schützt
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„Dieses brillante Buch bewahrt uns davor, den falschen Leuten zu vertrauen.“— RANDI KREGER, Bestseller-Autorin

Kennen Sie auch Menschen, die überall Konflikte heraufbeschwören, deren Stimmung ständig wechselt, die voller Misstrauen sind und immer anderen die Schuld für eigene Fehler geben? Die Rede ist von Borderlinern, Narzissten, paranoiden, antisozialen und histrionischen Persönlichkeiten. Mit ihren Aggressionsausbrüchen können sie einem nicht nur das Leben zur Hölle machen, sondern auch gefährlich werden! Wer einmal ins Visier solcher Typen geraten ist, kann diese nur schwer wieder abschütteln.

Bill Eddy, Jurist, Therapeut und Mediator, hat für diese Fälle den Begriff der
High-Conflict-Personality geprägt. Auf Basis jahrelanger Erfahrung hat er ein Konzept zum Umgang mit extremen Persönlichkeitstypen entwickelt, mit dem man solchen Menschen nicht schutzlos ausgeliefert ist. Dieser wertvolle Ratgeber zeigt Ihnen, wie Sie

  • typische Verhaltensmuster von High-Conflict-Personalities erkennen,
  • Beziehungen zu schwierigen Menschen im Privatleben und am Arbeitsplatz erfolgreich bewältigen,
  • Wege aus belastenden oder gar gefährlichen Situationen finden, wenn Sie zur Zielscheibe geworden sind.

Darüber hinaus lässt uns der Autor mit seiner empathischen Analyse verstehen, warum es immer mehr extreme Persönlichkeiten gibt. Dieses spannende, klar strukturierte Werk ist eine unverzichtbare Lektüre für Angehörige, Kollegen, Therapeuten, Anwälte, Richter, Mediatoren, Ärzte und andere Helferberufe.

„Indem er uns bewährte Methoden zur Verfügung stellt, hilft Bill uns, Monate und Jahre der Frustration, des Herzschmerzes und der Qual zu ersparen.“ — DENNIS L. SHARP, Mediator


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Mama-Mia out of Germany
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Manual for dealing with toxic people
Those affected by personality-disordered contemporaries often doubt themselves instead of questioning their toxic counterparts. Toxic people, if their manipulative behaviour is uncovered at all, present themselves as "victims", as "wrongly accused". This makes it even more difficult for the actual victims. Unfortunately, the issue is very present in today's society. In this classic, Bill Eddy offers a kind of handbook for dealing with people who manipulate others in one way or another. He explains what to look out for, how to recognise such people and what measures to take to remove yourself from the line of fire. A good guide on an explosive topic!
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Isabelle
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I currently have a problem with my mum, who won't admit her side of the blame after an argument and excludes me from her life (changing the locks, blocking the number etc.) She is bitter and full of resentment. Also poisoned my younger sister, who I never had a close relationship with anyway, and my nieces. What type of person would you describe this person as? I've tried everything on my part and even admitted my mistakes. But she is unforgiving. I'm trying hard to draw a line under it, but it's difficult
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Mama-Mia
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Hello, as a layperson you really can't tell from this information. I know from my own experience that certain toxic behaviours cannot always be clearly diagnosed in people from the environment, unfortunately often also from one's own family. In my opinion, Bill Eddy's book is very helpful in recognising the different toxic types. Another book that has personally helped me a lot to free myself from such dynamics is Margalis Fjelstad's "Free Yourself from Borderliners and Narcissists". Radical distance is sometimes important for reasons of self-protection, at least temporarily. There is the saying "If you want to be recognised, make yourself rare...!" Good luck!
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Susanne Kimmerle
before 3 years

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Experts are not infallible
This book shows me that "experts", no matter how many awards, titles and projects they can boast, don't necessarily have to be really helpful. Bill Eddy describes in a number of (documented) examples how far personalities with pronounced mental disorders can go in dealing with their fellow human beings (even to the point of murder) and how difficult it is to communicate with them, but he doesn't give any really useful advice - on the contrary, I think. He propagates a method that could be described as "therapeutic behaviour": Always treat such people respectfully and politely, never tell them that you suspect they are severely disturbed, etc. The reality is, however, that people with these kinds of distinctive characteristics often literally make life hell for those around them: Children of such parents cannot develop well, partners suffer for years without being able to hope that anything will improve, work colleagues change good and pleasant jobs because such colleagues put them under such stress that their health and private lives suffer. In these cases, friendliness, politeness, considerate behaviour and courtesy do not lead to less aggression, accusations, slander, intrigue and manipulation! In my opinion, consistency is what is needed when dealing with severely disturbed people and this is not a convenient solution, nor can it be aimed at maintaining intolerable conditions. This also means taking responsibility and supporting unpleasant decisions, such as a discharge, if it is really necessary.
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Mama-Mia
before 3 years
I found the book quite different. The author is not only a therapist, but also a lawyer and mediator. The title of the book is "5 types that can ruin your life". So the focus is on identifying these toxic types first. In this respect, I have rarely read a guide that differentiates as well as this one. The author then emphasises the importance of "self-awareness" and that you should seek help from others (possibly professionals) if you are exposed to such toxic people. In fact, it can be helpful not to express suspicion to toxic people that you have them figured out. I completely agree with the author. It is of course difficult in the family environment, especially if children are affected. But the book is not really aimed at them. However, Bill Eddy also criticises the influence of the media, especially on our children. The media actually encourages toxic behaviour. According to Bill Eddy, it is precisely because such characters are on the rise that it is important to recognise them more quickly in order to protect ourselves. This is the main purpose of this book. And of course, it is certainly true that you may have to endeavour to get rid of toxic people using all available means, which often requires the help of others.
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Heinrich out of Germany
before 3 years

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Very helpful
The explanations and instructions are very helpful and first and foremost supportive for your own self-awareness.
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Sabine out of Germany
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An extremely helpful book at the right time
It's great that Bill Eddy has taken the trouble to explain difficult personality types in such a well-structured and easy-to-understand way. This makes complicated psychological concepts accessible to everyone. Especially in this day and age, it's important to stay true to yourself and deal with difficult people in a respectful but firm manner. With this book, anyone can practise de-escalation, because you can simply assess people better. The method that the author has developed shows which behaviours and words/formulations you should pay attention to in everyday life. I find it really exciting because you automatically go through the world in a completely different way and observe your fellow human beings more attentively. And once you have internalised the method, even potentially unpleasant situations can be mastered with ease. Thank you Bill Eddy!
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Christina
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Title hits it exactly
To the point, exact description of these 5 types, how to recognise them, and how I can deal with these toxic people in the future or keep them away from me. Having experienced two such people in very bad form for years, I was driven to the wall, this book is now exactly what I need to be able to protect myself in the future. Excellent book. Can only recommend it to anyone who has experienced something similar.
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